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  Last night I had a great time teaching ‘Pleasure Upgrade’ at The Pleasure Chest in New York city. I missed co-teaching with my professional soulmate, but it was still a fantastic workshop, and a delightful audience.   This workshop combines tips on techniques and on communication skills to help participants upgrade their relationships and […]

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Meeting Cindy Gallop and the Women of Sex Tech

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  This week I had the pleasure of attending a Women of Sex Tech event in Manhattan. It was great to meet so many motivated, creative and capable women working in areas such as vibrator design, sex app design, and sexual assault online reporting.   Meeting Cindy Gallop was the highlight, and I was intrigued and […]

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Antics at the Antique Vibrator Museum

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  We were so pleased to be back teaching at Good Vibrations Antique Vibrator Museum in San Francisco this week. It was our second time teaching workshops there after our 2014 California teaching trip, and it was just as much fun as last time.   This time we taught two workshops: ‘Pleasure Upgrade’ a class to […]

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Talking about self pleasure with Caitlyn from The Sexy Love Project

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    Did you know that May is International Masturbation Month?     Last week I had a conversation with Caitlyn from The SexyLove Project about self pleasure.       Listen to our conversation:   Recorded 25th May 2016 (30min) . . Find Caitlyn at The SexyLove Project website and on Facebook.   Caitlyn’s upcoming workshops    […]

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To a sexpansive 2016

A little reminder to start the year with positive thoughts and aspirations for your sexual expression/sex life.     Here are some musings to start 2016 on the right foot:     Authenticity is the key, throw away the magazines that tell you how you should be having sex. Remind yourself to pursue what feels […]

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Blue movies

When I teach workshops I am often asked a question along the lines of:   “I’m interested in watching some porn, but I find mainstream porn unappealing. Do you have any suggestions for alternative/feminist/queer porn?”   Yes, I do. Here are some suggestions to get you started:   The Feminist Porn Awards are held in Toronto […]

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Get to know nikki darling

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September saw the launch of the new pleasure boutique nikki darling. I had the joy of teaching the sell out inaugural workshop for nikki darling on ’10 things you wish you knew about sex’. I I I interviewed Lauren Clair, the founder of nikki darling, to find out more. I I Who is nikki darling?   nikki darling is […]

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Melbourne je t’aime

  Guess what I did today… I watched Cyndi Darnell’s Atlas of Erotic Arousal and Anatomy to brush up on my sexual anatomy knowledge. It was packed full of info on nerves, muscles and arousal – check it out! Plus, having ‘atlas’ in the title really works for me, as I’m not only a sex geek, but […]

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Body Positivity as Fuel for Pleasure

    There are different reasons why someone might find it hard to have an orgasm. Here are some thoughts in this video I made with Kate McCombs when I was in New York last year.One thing that can make it difficult, especially when you’re with a partner, is if you’re worried about your body. Feeling self conscious about how […]

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Top Three Toy Suggestions

    One question I get asked a lot is “what’s the best sex toy?” and my answer is always “it depends what you want to feel“. Here are my top three toy suggestions:If you’re looking for a highly recommended g-spot massager, the Njoy Pure Wand is a much loved favourite.If you’re looking for a clit vibe, people rave about […]

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